Dialla's Desire socketed into ghost dance cost me all my spirit gems!

I socketed dialla's desire into my ghost dance and i was trying to get another reservation gem like cannibalism to fit in with the extra reservation. in trying to make it work right, i turned off one of my other auras and could not turn it back on. i tried turning off other auras to fix it and have the same issue. i have tried removing gear/relogging/etc but i cannot get any of my auras that require a martial weapon to turn on now. update: I can use brand new spirit gems, but it seems this interaction has entirely bricked the other 3 i had and now i have to buy new gems of the same type. glad im not in ssf i guess